If you can’t speak well of someone, don’t say anything at all

Once upon a time, an old man spread rumors that his neighbor was a thief. As a result, the young man was arrested. Days later he was proven innocent. After being released, he sued the old man for wrongly accusing him.

In court, the old man told the judge, “They were just comments, they didn’t harm anyone.”

The judge, before passing sentence on the case, told the old man, “write all the things you said about him on a piece of paper.” “Cut it up into little pieces and on the way home, throw the pieces of paper out of your car window. Tomorrow, come back to hear the sentence.”

The next day, the judge told the old man, “Before receiving the sentence, I want you to go out and gather up all the pieces of paper that you threw out of your car window yesterday.”

The old man said, “I can’t do that! The wind spread them all over the place and won’t know where to find them.”

Then the judge replied, “The same way, simple words and comments may destroy the honor of a person to such an extent that a person will not be able to fix it. If you can’t speak well of someone, don’t say anything at all. Let’s all be masters of our mouths, so that we won’t be slaves of our words.”

“Gossips are worse than thieves because they steal another person’s dignity, honor, reputation and credibility which are impossible to restore.

So remember this: when your feet slip, you can always recover your balance but when your tongue slips, you can never recover your words!” We should always learn to talk good of others. For everything we do on this earth to and against each other God is watching! For the wrong finger we pointed at each other out of sheer ignorance or malicious reputation, God is watching! For the harm we plan and do to each other, God is watching! For every step we took each day to disgrace others or humiliate them, your days are numbered because God is Watching! You own nothing of this world to hate, segregate, favour and harm others. We came alone and soon we will depart. Let’s everybody amongst us be aware that this life is too short to hate one another. There are people who leaved ages on this earth but didn’t felt it’s importance. Let us learn to love each other and protect one another, Life is too short to hate. 

Credit Abkii Godana 



If you’re stricken by drought

Others are chained in debt

If you don’t have shoes

Others have no feet

If you feel pain now

Others have been aching for years

If your son dies

Others have lost many (Syria & Gaza)

If you have sinned

Then repent

If you have committed a mistake

Correct it

The doors of repentance are ever open

The fountain of forgiveness is ever rich

So don’t be Sad

Let all bygones be bygones

What is predestined for you, you shall see it

Being sad will not change anything

So don’t be Sad

Sadness spoils your life

Destroys your happiness

And turn it into wretchedness

So don’t be Sad

Supplication is your shield

Prayer is your beacon!

Prostration is your means

So don’t be Sad

See how vast is the earth

And how nice is the garden and forests are?

How bright are the stars?

All are happy but you are sad

So don’t be Sad

You have a sweet water to drink

Fresh air to breath!

Feet to walk with

You safely sleep in your bed

So why Be SAD?

Every cloud has a silver lining

After a long night comes a bright sun!

Life will soon give a smile

So be ready to get it

And don’t be Sad

Real life is that spends in happiness

So cross out your sad days from your age

Peace of mind is real treasure

There are many who have less than us

And who are going through more than us

Let us all sit and reflect.


Secret of happiness 

Begin each day reminding yourself of all the things that are right with your life. And at the end of the day, you’ll find even more.

What if you could simply laugh at the things that might hurt your feelings? Actually, you can, and when you do, it’s powerful.

You cannot control the behavior of others. Yet you absolutely control the way you respond to and internalize their words and actions.





Stay focused 

Stay focused on your dreams, avoid negative people who try to pull you down, say no to hate & allow love fill your heart. #No Drama

Don’t go round worrying about who hates or likes you.. There must be haters and doubters. Instead, concentrate on your dreams and have laser focus.

As you embark on another day, begin with the knowledge that there will be people who will try to bring you down with their unnecessary drama. Don’t fall for it! 

There will also be people 👥, who will try to disturb your peace of mind. Don’t let them!


Sitting on a bench beneath a tree,

Thinking of passed memories with you.

Urging loneliness to set me free.

In a crowd of so many, I am waiting for you!


This is another evening, I am waiting.

My sun of hopes drowned in a sea.

Yet you are not coming, and I am waiting!

People laugh at me, when they see.


In a page of heart with the pen of time.

I have written love along with you!

I have whitened roads with lime!

Leading to my palace built for you.


Oh my dear you redefined love.

Anger and prejudice just flew,

There remained love, a pure love!

My poem is dedication to you.


I am here waiting for you.

Someday you will hear about me,

That I am waiting for you!

And you will read this poem to me.



Asalam aleykum?

You can respect and understand the opinion of others without agreeing or giving in or allowing them to take advantage of you. Often you can learn much more from someone who disagrees with you than you can from those with whom you agree.

When you refuse to even listen to a differing opinion, that’s a sure sign of weakness and insecurity. By contrast, when you can respect and welcome the opinions of others, it will strengthen your confidence in your own opinion.